Reclaiming Your Sexuality

by Sherry Tobia, N.P.

The clinicians at University Gynecologic Oncology (UGO) recognize the importance of addressing the impact your cancer treatment has on sexuality and your quality of life. As you confront a diagnosis of cancer and begin treatment, you will experience a multitude of emotions including fear and anxiety. You may face dramatic changes in your lifestyle. Understandably, your main concern after learning you have cancer is to keep your body and spirit together. It is normal that these concerns would interfere with your usual interest in sex. According to Dr. Benedict Benigno, “It is so important to involve the partner in this process because they often have misplaced fears about ‘catching’ cancer or worries about their exposure to radiation if our patient is receiving that method of treatment. Partners also have real concerns about the changes in the woman’s health and ability to engage in sexual activity without causing additional pain or distress.” At UGO, we address the unique concerns women and their partners face during and after gynecologic cancer treatment. As you begin to adjust to your “new normal” and reclaim your vitality, it is important to restore intimacy and sexuality in your life. Throughout your journey of survivorship, remember that regardless of your desire or ability to engage in sexual activity, it is important to have individuals in your life who share their love and support with you.

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